A women moans and complains that you snap at her sometimes but when you reveal these 5 reasons how come you do it the game changes.
You can use these to understand yourself better and explain to your loved ones how come sometimes you snap.
SHE DOES SOMETHING THAT CAN BE DONE IN A DIFFERENT WAY, YOU SNAP.
To set the scene… You show her you love her and care for her. So you see something she does which is wrong or it can be done another way and so you snap at her. You don’t love her any less, you are expressing your roundabout ways of loving her in that moment when you snap because you see there is another way, it may be easier or simpler for her.
SNAPPING LOUD VOICE AS AN EXPRESSION OF YOUR FEELING COMFORTABLE.
You are raising your voice which means you feel comfortable enough to be your true self. When you are on your own, you raise your voice if you see something funny, laugh from deep within your belly, feel pissed of at the football game so you scream out. This changes when she is around which is twisted. You may be changing your true self expression in front of her presence. Instead. You allow raising your voice in a snappy moment to become part of your flow and expression of who you are. THIS IS NOT AN INVITATION for you to start screaming and shouting, I am talking about raising your voice in a moment of glee or ecstasy.
SNAP BECAUSE YOUR SPEED CAN SERVE AS AN EXAMPLE.
You are faster than her which can serve as an example for her to improve on a particular area. Yes. Speed doesn’t always relate to running fast or driving a fast car. Speed as in the sharpness of your mind, the speed of your eye for details, how quickly you notice things, your levels of awareness and their speed of expansion. Here, yes you can snap because your speed is an example and she can improve from it.
SNAP WHEN SHE ISNT RESPONDING TO THE GOOD VIBES.
You’re being silly and child like, which is always a good sign and if she gets offended then she should really lighten up because what damage is really done? none! Realistically, if you are in a joyful mood playing around, the other person is to learn to embrace every moment like this instead of getting offended or stroppy. She needs to lighten up and see the funny side, if not you will snap and truth be told, the snap should be on her part because you’re bringing a joyful energy to the table. Snap, she should respond to it and get involved. More about responding in the Playful Course here.
YOUR NEED FOR YOUR ATTENTION AND TOUCH IS WORTH THE SNAPPING.
As a sign that you need her attention, you feel unnoticed or she don’t share with you enough so its a way of drawing attention to yourself even if its in a snappy way. There is a need for attention or touch and you’re helping yourself by snapping at her to snap into paying more attention. Your needs and wants are important to and you make sure to meet them no matter what it takes. Your snapping at her is only because you feel unseen. Snap, snap, you are here.
With tentativeness and compassion.
p.s. This week Teal will teach you about how to awaken the divine feminine in you. Remember we all have the feminine and masculine energies. Next week I will post about the masculine energy as well as a special guest blogger and a dear coach on awakening the masculine power within you.